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VIAŢA CREŞTINĂ

2009 – NO.1-3 (Ianuarie-Martie, 2009 ) – VOL. 52, ISSUE 1-3

 

FUNERALS - INMORMANTARI 2009

 

FUNERALS IMO MARIA MEREG

(March 25, 1925 – December 12, 2008)

The funeral service of Maria Mereg of Northridge, California, took place on December 12, 2008, at the Chaple of the Oaks, in Chatsworth, CA.

The internment: Oakwood Memorial Park, Chatsworth. The Service was officiated by Fr. Constantin Alecse. Maria Petrisca was born on March 23, 1925 in Semlac, Romania.

She was the 3rd child of Ana & Nicolae Petrisca.

From an early age she started working. Although times were though especially during the war years, Maria one of the eldest of 8 siblings would wake up early in the morning & help her mother with the house work.

In her early twenties she met Iuliu Mereg & married soon after. They both lived happily for 56 years until Iuliu's death in 2003.

Maria & Iuliu Mereg had 2 sons, Iuliu & John. Her eldest, Iuliu married Cornelia & had 1 son, Bogdan. John, Maria's youngest, married Margaret & had 1 daughter, Beatrix. Maria was the family historian always knowing details about everybody in the family.

She kept great family albums & records of everyone. She was a warm & calm person.

She would never argue with anybody & even if she would be upset, she would never let you know. Maria was one of the most thoughtful persons in the family.

She would never forget a birthday or a Christmas gift to anybody.

Maria loved her independence. She would do all things on her own without any limitations.

One of Maria's greatest love in life beside her family were her plants & flowers. Her home would be filled with plants that she would care for & then would give as a gift to others.

Maria was a loyal wife, a loving mother, a nurturing grandmother & a kind sister. Maria was a true Christian. May God rest her soul in peace!

IMO MARIA GERGESCO

(January 3, 1911 – December 24, 2008)

Doamna Maria Gergesco, nonagenara comunitatii, a trecut la Domnul la vârsta de 97 de ani, la resedinta sa din Los Angeles, California.

Se nascuse în România, la 3 ianuarie 1911.

Fusese casatorita cu George Gergesco, care a plecat la vesnicie tot la o vârsta înaintata, acum câtiva ani.

Nu au avut copii, în schimb raposata Maria a avut o sumedenie de prieteni. Sora ei mai mica, Elena Apostolescu, a precedat-o în deces, acum 15 ani, în Romania, însa a fost adusa spre înhumare în California.

Maria Gergesco a avut o viata pe cât de lunga, pe atât de binecuvântata si fericita. Era o credincioasa a Bisericii drept-maritoare, si o devotata membra a Bisericii Sfânta Treime.

Bunul Dumnezeu s-a milostivit spre dânsa, si a chemat-o acasa, în ajunul Craciunului (24 decembrie 2008), fiind prohodita de catre parintele Constantin Alecse, în ziua de 29 decembrie 2008, în capela cimitirului Hollywood For Ever, din Hollywood.

Înhumarea a avut loc în acelasi cimitir. Dumnezeu s-o ierte si sa o salasluiasca în corturile dreptilor.

IMO MARIANA LUCIA CERGHIZAN

(August 15, 1956 - January 6, 2009)

Mariana Lucia Cerghizan a trecut la Domnul, dupa o suferinta de a viata întreaga, la data de 6 ianuarie 2009, la vârsta de 52 de ani.

Istoria vietii Marienei a fost pe cât de interesanta pe atât de binecuvântata si speciala în felul ei. Se nascuse în România la 15 august 1956, din parintii Mircea Eugen si Elena Cerghizan, devotati enoriasi ai parohiei Sfânta Treime.

Mariana era prâzlea familiei, având 4 frati mai mari, pe Mircea, preotul Mihai, Antoniu si Voicu-Sabin. Dorinta sotilor Mircea Eugen si Elena Cerghizan a fost aceea ca, dupa ce au fost binecuvântati cu 4 baieti, sa aiba si o fata, care, nascuta în 1956, în Ziua Sfintei Marii, au botezat-o Mariana Lucia.

Dupa 2 ani dela nastere, Mariana se îmbolnaveste, si dupa o interventie chirurgicala, ramâne handicapata pentru tot restul vietii. Din dorinta fierbinte de a o vindeca, parintii au apelat pe toate caile, la toti doctorii renumiti din Europa, Africa de Sud si America. Cu ajutorul familiilor Luca Sabin si Sighisoreanu, reusesc sa vina în America, sa încerce tot posibilul. Desi nu s-a vindecat, Mariana a gasit un tratament care i-a ameliorat starea sanatatii. Dr. Gabriel Ronald, care o trateaza pe Mariana de 30 de ani, ia spus Marianei, când ea avea 45 de ani: „Cât de norocoasa poti sa fii ca esti în viata. Aceasta se datoreste devotamentului si îngrijirii pe care mama ta ti-a oferit-o. Toti pacientii mei de gen feminin, cu boala ta, nu au ajuns la vârsta de peste 29 de ani“.

Mama Marienei, mama Elena, si-a sacrificat viata ei pentru a o vedea pe Mariana cât mai fericit. De asemenea, nu a încetat sa-i iubeasca si sa-i ajute si pe ceilalti copii, sa se acomodeze în Statele Unite, cum au putut mai bine. Tenacitatea de a lupta cu viata, si devotamentul de mama si sotie, a mamei Elena, a fost încercat din nou în 1996, când sotul Eugen Mircea a fost luat grabnic dintre noi, apoi – la numai 4 luni – la pierderea fiului ei, preotul Mihai, apoi, dupa înca 2 ani, a urmat si pierderea fiului Mircea, repatriart în Tara. Deoarece starea sanatatii mamei Elena se înrautateste, în anul 2001 are operatie deschisa la inima, iar dupa 2 ani, rinichii nu-i mai functioneaza, fiind fortata sa înceapa dializa. Devotamentul si dragostea pentru Mariana au motivat-o si ajutat-o sa lupte cu boala, si sa ajunga la vârsta de aproape 90 de ani (fara o luna).

Dupa plecarea la vesnicie a mamei Elena, Mariana Lucia continua sa primeasca aceeasi dragoste, devotement si îngrijire impecabila dela fralete mai mic, Voicu Sabin, caruia, si pe aceasta cale îi transmitem condoleantele întregii noastre comunitati.

Dumnezeu a chemat-o pe Mariana în locasurile vesnice în Ziua de Boboteaza 2009. Slujbele de saracusta si Înmormântarea, s-au oficiat în biserica noastra, la 12 si respective 13 Ianuarie 2009, iar înhumarea a avut loc la cimitirul Forest Lawn din Hollywood Hills, în mormantul dintre cele 2 morminte ale parintilor ei. Dupa inmormantare, a urmat o traditionala masa de pomenire, la sala parohiala.

Exprimam si pe acesta cale cele mai adânci condoleante fratilor Voicu Sabin, si Antoniu Cerghizan. Dumnezeu s-o ierte pe Mariana, si s-o odihneasca în corturile dreptilor.

IMO: Razvan George Markou
( August 19, 1925 – February 8, 2009)

La 8 Februarie 2009, ne-a parasit fratele nostru întru Domnul, Razvan George Markou, dupa o îndelungata suferinta.

La rugamintea familiei, cu numai câteva ore înainte de deces, parintele Constantin s-a deplasat la resedinta din Canyon Country a familiei Niculina si Razvan George, unde, în prezenta tuturor membrilor familiei, a administrat bolnavului Razvan Sf. Taina a Împartasaniei, dupa care, penitentul si-a dat obstescul sfârsit. .

Razvan George Markou se nascuse la 19 August 1925, în Bucuresti, Romania, din parintii: Eugenia si Acad. Prof. Arhitect Duiliu Marcu.

Studiile superioare: Facultatea de Drept si Conservatorul

Detinut politic la Aiud dupa venirea comunistilor.

S-a recalificat la Uzina 23 August unde a lucrat pina la plecarea din tara.

Din prima casatorie a avut o fata - Cristina - care s-a prapadit in urma cu 3 ani de cancer.

Ne-am casatorit civil in 1975, dupa care in 1977 am venit in America.

Primul lor scop a fost sa-si aduca aici familia sotiei, si pe fiica lui.

In decursul anilor s-au realizat cele mai importante dorinte ale lui.

In 1992 Alexandru a devenit fiul nostru, pe care Razvan l-a iubit cu mult suflet si intelegere.

Din 1994 a inceput sa sufere de cancer. A supravietuit trei, dar al patrulea l-a rapus.

Dupa cum am mentionat mai sus, d uminica 8 Februarie 2009, Razvan George Markou si-a dat obstescul sfarsit, in locuita sa din Canyon Country, CA, inconjurat cu multa dragoste de toti membrii familiei. Slujba înmormântarii a fost oficiata de catre p.c. cucernici parinti Constantin Alecse si arhim.Nikodim (Remus Bibart), în capela Old North Church din Forest Lawn, Hollywood Hills, urmata de ritualul înhumarii, în acelasi cimitir. Condoleante familiei, sotia Niculina, fiul Alexandru, si tuturor rudeniile, si fie ca Dumnezeu sa-l ierte si sa-l salasluiasca în corturile dreptilor!

IMO VICTOR DULA

(April 11, 1919 – February 25, 2009)

The beloved brother of the Holy Trinity Romanian Orthodox Church in Los Angeles, Mr. Victor Dula, of Hollywood, California, passed away on February 25, 2009.

The Funeral Service was held by Fr. Constantin Alecse , in the Old North Church of Forest Lawn, Hollywood Hills, on Monday, March 2, 2009 at 2:30 pm.

At the end of the service, the eulogy wad delivered by his closest friend in Los Angeles, Mr. Stefan Dondoe , who, among other things, he noted: “ I've met Victor many years ago when his daughter Manuela and his son-in-law Romulus, my friends that were living in Romania, were able to come to visit him after the collapse of the communist regime in that country.

As soon as I met Victor, I realized that he was a very special person with an extraordinary interesting life experience; with his storytelling talent and good humor he always was captivating his audience, young and old. In short time Victor, my wife and I become very good friends and along the years had a chance to know him better.

Victor fled Romania in 1947, just as the communists were taking over the country. First, he unsuccessfully tried to get to Italy passing through Yugoslavia. In a second attempt, he succeeded to reach Vienna, Austria, where he lived and worked for few years. Then, he moved to Paris where he continued to work hard and save enough money to eventually cross the ocean to his dreamed destination, Rio de Janeiro. In Rio, where he settled for many years, he started his own business, met famous personalities, built a mansion-like home on a hilltop and tried hard to reunite with his family from Romania. Eventually he succeeded to bring only his old parents, but was unable to reunite with his wife and daughter.

Years later when the economic situation in Brazil started to deteriorate, Victor moved to Los Angeles where he managed to make his business “Victor of Paris” famous within the artistic community of Hollywood.

Victor continued to work till two years ago when, at age 87, decided to semi retire; however, another business he had in Los Angeles, he continued to manage till the very end.

Along his long life, Victor worked hard with honesty and dignity; he was fluent in five languages: Romanian, English, Portuguese, Spanish and German. He was a proud, handsome and kind gentleman that through his hard work, honesty, wisdom and exemplary life conduct set a high mark example for all who knew him.

We lost a very dear friend. God, our Lord, bless him in Your Kingdom!” – Mr. Dondoe concluded his Eulogy.

After sharing some spiritual thoughts with the family (daughter Manuela Ana & R. Andrei, son-in-law), and the rest of participants, Fr Constantin concluded the service in the Chapel. Victor Dula was layed to rest in the same cemetery. May God rest his soul in peace. Dumnezeu sa-l ierte!

Excerpts from Victor Dula's interview to Detour Magazine, May 1996

Written by Grant Tume, photographed by Dan Chavkin

"My name is Victor Dula; I am a barber. I work as 'Victor of Paris', my fictitious name, because I lived in Paris for three years and I speak French.

I was born in Romania, in the city of Timisoara, where I learn my profession. When I was 17, I went to Bucharest, where I continued to work in good and high-class salons. In 1941 I was chosen as the private barber to General Ion Antonescu. He ruled Romania at this time—he was in charge as second man after King Mihai.

In 1946 I went to Austria, where I stayed for one year working in a very nice barbershop on the Maria Hilfenstrasse. After that I went to Germany, and then to Paris, where I worked for Georges Georgious, the president of French coiffure. He took me to the French Riviera at Cannes and, when I returned to Paris, I worked for Mademoiselle De Choissy, a princess.

I was in Brussels, Belgium, for a short time, then Rotterdam, Casablanca and Marrakech. I returned to Paris for a short before emigrating to Rio de Janeiro, where I rented a shop in the big, new Hotel Excelsior Copacabana. I stayed there for 26 years, after which I emi grated in 1975 to the U.S.A. and Los Angeles, where I opened my own barber shop.

In 1974 when I was in Rio, I received a phone call at my shop from the manager of the Copacabana Palace Hotel to come and cut the hair of King Baudouin of Belgium, because I was the only barber who spoke French. I went there, I said, ‘Majesty' and I cut his hair.

They call my shop ‘the actor's barber shop'."

I ask Victor what killed the classic neigh borhood barbershop. I have my suspicions, which he confirms, emphatically: ‘THE BEATLES'.

"What killed the barbershop and the barber was the Beatles", Victor reiterates. "Because they let their hairs grow as long as the ladies, it became a matter for the hair dressers. We barbers were still doing the normal style haircut, only to the neck. The average man visited his barber every Friday or Saturday, so that he would be neat and presentable on Sunday, whether for church, a family gath ering, or the return to work on Monday. In those days a barber could stay open until midnight just to finish his customers.

Today, men let their hair grow, they walk around in pants with h oles in them, and nobody shaves. The young people that go to a barber these days will not come to me because I have white hair; the rest go to these 'artists' that won't cut your hair until they give you a shamp oo first. I still have my regulars who come in for a shave and a haircu t, but it is a dying tradition. I am the only 'barber' from Fairfax Avenue to Beverly Hills—the rest are all hair stylists, hair 'designers'... o r artists. I am not an artist—I am barber."

The good old days may have been overrated, but Victor Dula certainly is certainly not. H e's a hell of a lot cheaper than therapy, a whole lot prettier than a hangover, and he once cut Erik Estrada's hair. Gentleman and barber, Victor of Paris is truly "a cut above".

Victor of Paris barbershop is located at 8535 W. Sunset Boulevard in West Hollywood. Telephone (310) 659-0750.


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